We often sort people into “worth it / not worth it” without saying it out loud. Conditional love (based on performance), contingent love (based on context), and convenient love (based on comfort) all start with us and move outward. But Romans 12 calls us to something deeper: “Let love be genuine.” Genuine love begins with inner surrender (12:1–2) and then spills into honor, zeal, prayer, generosity, and hospitality (12:10–13).